tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post4029298369210122563..comments2024-03-27T14:02:33.261-05:00Comments on Churp, Churp: Now that I hate July 3Crickethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13622985406269216862noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-88464442971999043792008-07-10T10:52:00.000-05:002008-07-10T10:52:00.000-05:00Well, all I can say is that everyone needs a wife....Well, all I can say is that everyone needs a wife. BUT, the whole expectations thing is a good thing. Settling doesn't work. I tried for 5 years... (oops, don't tell my soon to be ex that).NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-3280193628193821452008-07-03T10:10:00.000-05:002008-07-03T10:10:00.000-05:00I know tons of women who have found their guys aft...I know tons of women who have found their guys after many years of being single. I think it's all about timing and I have to hope for myself, that it will happen when I'm really ready, not just when I want it. I think I've learned a lot about my own expectations and how to let things go a little better. God, how I hate the process...Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-88699797298682386402008-07-03T09:20:00.000-05:002008-07-03T09:20:00.000-05:00"More sleep" - amen to that, sistah! Sorry you ar..."More sleep" - amen to that, sistah! Sorry you are suffering thru these trigger-happy dates (my former wedding anniversary was 5/25 aka Memorial Day). <BR/>& G certainly sometimes I feel as though I've just traded one set of red flags for another, but I have to make peace w/the choices I've made...Valhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03152215204773184788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-47187249068306052922008-07-03T09:07:00.000-05:002008-07-03T09:07:00.000-05:00Cricket,It took me 34 years to find a decent guy. ...Cricket,<BR/>It took me 34 years to find a decent guy. I expect if I had to start over it would take another decade, not 34 years, given I've learned a thing or two, but as far as I can tell it simply takes time. <BR/><BR/>I watch my single girlfriends---great women--- struggle to find someone decent without dozens of red flags flying of of them.<BR/><BR/>Hang on...I don't believe you'll be alone forever. It's hard for everyone to find the right person, but you're doing it the right way. Not willing to compromise and taking your time when you find someone.<BR/><BR/>You're doing it all right. And in the mean time you are beautiful just as you are!! Remember that.Monica Cassanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13969938853749704756noreply@blogger.com