tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post5062478603854481347..comments2024-03-27T14:02:33.261-05:00Comments on Churp, Churp: ConfusedCrickethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13622985406269216862noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-56777473979119219862008-10-08T14:43:00.000-05:002008-10-08T14:43:00.000-05:00Wow. It sounds like it's just as confusing dating ...Wow. It sounds like it's just as confusing dating people of the same sex, as it is with the opposite sex. She's a head case clear and simple. I've dated a few guys like that and they are confusing as hell. I don't think she's even worth your friendship. No wonder she doesn't have many friends.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-15942203856410213002008-10-07T17:12:00.000-05:002008-10-07T17:12:00.000-05:00Someone who acts one way, reacts another, and then...Someone who acts one way, reacts another, and then doesn't take any responsibility? Yeah, you so don't need to be involved with someone like that. It doesn't seem like she'd even be much of a friend, let alone an intimate friend, if that is how she behaves.laura b.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15086009761943858915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-14587987605475754282008-10-07T11:05:00.000-05:002008-10-07T11:05:00.000-05:00Oh, Cricket. I'm sorry. She sounds like she really...Oh, Cricket. I'm sorry. She sounds like she really is confused by who she is. Which is good, I suppose, that you learned it now. It's too bad she wasn't upfront from the beginning like she should have been.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-36515140319298827962008-10-07T10:13:00.000-05:002008-10-07T10:13:00.000-05:00"Other" people are always crazy once you get to kn..."Other" people are always crazy once you get to know them very well. The world outside your house isn't safe, and your kid may soon be practicing "Throw Mamma From The Train" while humming "The Battle Hymn of the Republic". <BR/><BR/>Truth doesn't march on, but History does. Don't get trampled, don't wet your pants.Ron Southernhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08604305014713612990noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-85451882163174450592008-10-07T08:57:00.000-05:002008-10-07T08:57:00.000-05:00I don't know what to say. She's obviously a bit m...I don't know what to say. She's obviously a bit messed up. And I'm sorry you've had so many negative experiences. People just don't get it that someone can think they are 'clean' and not be. People are taking chances all the time - it's just not in their face. Heaven forbid you have to confront something head on. I was with one guy who I had many arguments with in the beginning and forced him to challenge some of his thinking. To his credit, he listened and thought. Still the first time he was nervous and tried some crazy things to protect himself, but then finally became comfortable.NoRegretshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13240929627271129160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-77472923689159519172008-10-07T08:05:00.000-05:002008-10-07T08:05:00.000-05:00I have not responded back, but I have an email com...I have not responded back, but I have an email composed. In the mean time, she emailed me again and said that she'd told me she was impulsive sometimes and did stupid things. Buying dental dams qualified as impulsive, as did hooking up on CL. <BR/><BR/>She's an adult. These are childish things to say. When you're with an adult, you figure they're owning their decisions. She does not and chalks it up to being impetuous. I am screaming inside to think how she characterized me as forcing her somehow when I thought she was an adult in control of her actions. She said and did enough over time to make me feel safe and comfortable enough to try.<BR/><BR/>I will say that I don't think I'd be in this situation with a guy.Crickethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13622985406269216862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-18209174979361989792008-10-06T22:30:00.000-05:002008-10-06T22:30:00.000-05:00Wow, what a head game. She should be ashamed. I am...Wow, what a head game. She should be ashamed. I am sorry.Well-heeled momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11569152748901969557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-6128995774261771332008-10-06T22:20:00.000-05:002008-10-06T22:20:00.000-05:00Oh,I'm so disappointed for you...she totally p...Oh,<BR/>I'm so disappointed for you...she totally played games with you...if nothing else the dental damns were screaming "I want to be f*&&ed by you!"<BR/><BR/>I'm terribly sorry. I would definitely feel crushed...<BR/><BR/>love to you Cricket...I know you're a catch!!Monica Cassanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13969938853749704756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-60411851360135146882008-10-06T22:02:00.000-05:002008-10-06T22:02:00.000-05:00oops, sorry, that was me...Juliannaoops, sorry, that was me...JuliannaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-19538612140467232532008-10-06T22:01:00.000-05:002008-10-06T22:01:00.000-05:00Cricket,This is so confusing for even me, I had to...Cricket,<BR/><BR/>This is so confusing for even me, I had to read this three times.<BR/><BR/>If this were a man you were speaking of, I would label him "fucked-up" and beg you to bid him adieu.<BR/><BR/>Because it is a woman, I project more gentle tolerance on her but then remember to look at the facts, not projections, and it is clear - she is "fucked-up" and I beg you to bid her adieu.<BR/><BR/>Much love,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com