tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post5696016927645821356..comments2024-03-27T14:02:33.261-05:00Comments on Churp, Churp: WhirlwindCrickethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13622985406269216862noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-61675754567443612332008-05-25T17:01:00.000-05:002008-05-25T17:01:00.000-05:00Everyone deserves someone they can love and trust,...Everyone deserves someone they can love and trust, but everyone also deserves someone who can forgive them at least once over stupid-ass mistakes. The BH and I had a trust fight over the weekend. I won't be blogging about it, but it's made me leery of what else I don't know. For now, I'm trying to settle for "I warned him, in no uncertain terms, and we will continue to go forward for now." We'll see. <BR/><BR/>Hugs. And I am glad you have found someone who you've been able to love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-14213371790380467432008-05-23T16:41:00.000-05:002008-05-23T16:41:00.000-05:00Oi. (Or possibly Oy. I've never been sure) I seem...Oi. (Or possibly Oy. I've never been sure) I seem to remember reading that you had told her you were a private person and that you weren't comfortable with the world knowing yet. That could've been a dream, as I've been dreaming about knowing the people's who's blogs I read IRL, but that's fodder for a blog entry all my own.<BR/><BR/>I can definitely see where the trust is gone and, quite frankly, if I were in your shoes, the whole ordeal would've been a deal breaker for me. Like you said, how do you know if she messes up again that she'll even tell you? And, in the event that it does happen again, how much more hurtful would it be if you happened to find out from someone you barely knew?<BR/><BR/>I hope you're able to find a solution to this.brite69https://www.blogger.com/profile/18051491273509131714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-70900814836002849192008-05-23T16:31:00.000-05:002008-05-23T16:31:00.000-05:00Wow... what a situation. /sigh I hate the feelin...Wow... what a situation. /sigh I hate the feeling of betrayal. I am sooooooo sorry.Brigitte Ballard https://www.blogger.com/profile/01685306630384821633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-35995443475113328162008-05-23T14:53:00.000-05:002008-05-23T14:53:00.000-05:00Thanks, everybody.Churlita, you're right about it ...Thanks, everybody.<BR/><BR/>Churlita, you're right about it potentially coming up again and I do hate treading on egg shells. And you're also right about the different comfort zones regarding privacy. I abhor trying to get anyone to change, as it is not my place, but here I am asking her to not be herself. It's like I'm almost asking for problems. And being unfair.Crickethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13622985406269216862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-8326202733425470122008-05-23T11:32:00.000-05:002008-05-23T11:32:00.000-05:00I'm private too, believe it or not, and I totally ...I'm private too, believe it or not, and I totally understand. I hope that it all works out for the best.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-24124774270130339072008-05-23T10:15:00.000-05:002008-05-23T10:15:00.000-05:00Good luck with all of this. if you are an intensel...Good luck with all of this. if you are an intensely private person and she is very open, neither of you will really understand the others issues in that regard. To her, she was excited and wanted the world to know. To you, it was a betrayal. I think your feelings on this are right. it will probably come up again in the future.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8703107.post-73148177018390662962008-05-23T09:43:00.000-05:002008-05-23T09:43:00.000-05:00I'm sorry Cricket, I wish I could say something he...I'm sorry Cricket, I wish I could say something helpful..I generally try not to form opinions about other peoples romantic partners/spouses<BR/>...it's all so complicated.<BR/><BR/>I do feel for you though.<BR/><BR/>peace.Monica Cassanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13969938853749704756noreply@blogger.com